Tag: cow

  • The benefits of melting down

    Last week when Brent brought home Buttercup, I was ecstatic. We had been talking about getting a cow for a while and really starting this hobby farm, homesteading adventure. Despite the somewhat abrupt nature of Buttercup’s arrival, it wasn’t like getting a cow was this big surprise or out of the plan, it was definitely something we had discussed at length and agreed it would happen this year. All that being said, when it actually became a reality, the excitement quickly wore off and panic, stress and an overwhelming sense of being in over my head replaced it. Suddenly it wasn’t some far off plan, or fun musing that Brent and I could talk about while looking at pictures of adorable cows without the actual work being put into raising it; it was real. All these real feelings resulted in me having a meltdown Thursday evening and most of Friday. Now perhaps to some this would be a sign that they made a mistake and that it isn’t the right path for them, but for me, once it was over, I realised it was exactly what I needed to fully embrace this new adventure. I personally believe that meltdowns are extremely beneficial, often happen when starting a new adventure and can really help clear the mind of all the doubt.

    I think everyone can agree that sometimes you just need to cry. Whatever the reason, every now and then, it is good to clear out the old tear ducts and really have a good cry. Whether it’s from watching a good movie, or maybe just a sappy one, finally letting yourself feel the pain of something you have been trying to overcome, or just out of sheer frustration, it can help you ultimately feel better. So, Thursday night, I did just that. I sat on our bed and just let the tears flow. I was crying out of fear about how having this cow was going to change our daily routines. I cried because I thought maybe I won’t actually be able to do this mentally or physically, after all, even a baby cow is still a large animal. Then I started crying thinking about people who maybe doubted that this was the right path for me and that I would discover I didn’t want this life and that made me cry even more. Eventually, I had to just turn on some Modern Family to lift up my spirits and I went to bed with many questions and doubts still circling around in my brain.

    Massive bag of milk replacer

    I woke up the next morning, hoping that I had gotten it all out of my system and that I would be able to face the day with nothing but optimism and sunshine. That quickly faded when I realised that I would need to get the girls dressed to come out and feed Buttercup in the morning. If I thought getting them out of the house normally was a challenge, trying to convince them when they first wake up to put a coat and boots on over their pjs to go to the barn was even harder. Then ensued the fighting over who would get to stir the milk replacer, who would get to hold the bottle, who would get to feed her, and all my zen positive vibes went right out the window. Spoiler, I ended up being the one feeding her as both girls got tired of holding the bottle after about 0.2 seconds. Each time my routines and everything I am used to have to change, that little doubt in the back of my mind comes racing forward ready to present all the reasons why what I had chose to do was a bad idea. This latest purchase of Buttercup was no exception. Suddenly, I was going to have to use bottles and milk replacer, which is essentially like cow formula, twice a day and keep this little baby cow alive and thriving for the next 5-7 weeks before it could fend for itself and live off of grazing our pastures. I needed to check on it a few times a day, clean her stall, make sure she was healthy, figure out how to get her back into her stall without being bucked. It all seemed like too much. I spent most of Friday frustrated and upset that I had chosen once again to shake things up just when we were finally getting into a rhythm. Why had I insisted that this be the year we get animals? Why didn’t I wait until both girls were in school full time before taking on this responsibility? All the negative thoughts running through my head, actually helped me acknowledge and deal with the doubt and stress of this new adventure. I had thrown myself into the idea of homesteading with such gusto that I had never given myself the chance to feel the nerves. The meltdown helped me to reset and remember what my ultimate goal was with this adventure. Once I was able to do that, things seemed more doable.

    It has been a week now since we got Buttercup, and I have fallen into a new routine. There are sacrifices of course, for example, she needs to be fed right before we have dinner. This has caused us to eat later than normal, which is not a big deal, but will also affect family gatherings while she is being bottle-fed as we will have to be at the house to feed her close to dinnertime meaning we will only get to our family dinners right in time to eat, whereas in the past we could come on our own schedule and visit before dinner. Another slight annoyance, Penny often doesn’t wake up until 8 in the mornings, but Buttercup needs to be fed around 7:00-7:30, meaning I have to wake Penny up to bring her with me when I go feed Buttercup. I have contemplated just letting her sleep while Cece and I feed Buttercup, but the barn is a good distance from the house and I don’t want Penny to wake up and be alone in the house and get scared. So, in the mornings I bring a rather cranky Penny with us to the barn, where she gets annoyed that I can’t hold her while I feed Buttercup. The evening feeds are much smoother. All in all, I am glad we got our cow despite the sacrifices that we currently have to make, and I am looking forward to the summer months here on the farm, particularly because Buttercup will then be out in the pasture and will be much lower maintenance!

  • Seeing a man about a cow…

    I originally had a whole plan for this week’s blog. After feeling defeated last week at the lack of affordable cattle, I spent most of the week reading up on what we would need for our future sheep, planning Cece’s 5th birthday party, and contemplating whether or not we should get pigs instead. I was going to write about the pros and cons that I had considered about getting pigs and talk about which breeds I liked best. However, 8hrs ago I saw Brent leaving the driveway with his trailer hitched to the back and I sent him a text asking where he was going, to which he responded, “to see a man about a cow”. Two and a half hours later, he was pulling into the driveway with Buttercup, our new 4-day old calf.

    Now in Brent’s defense, we had been talking about getting cows for months as I had previously detailed, and he did in fact mention this morning that he might have a lead on a calf for pick up on Saturday. However, that was the last thing he mentioned before I saw him a few hours later pulling out of the drive. To some this might seem frightening, ill-planned, scary, nerve-wracking or stressful, but for us I have to admit it is kind of par for the course. When we decided to buy our first house, we had a conversation on the Friday of hey we should maybe think about buying a house and we closed on our house on the Tuesday, a mere 4 days later. A few years later, Brent and I had had some brief conversations about how it might be nice to have a pool. We even bought a small above ground pool, then returned it because we decided that it was too small and not worth it. Then I went on a trip back home to BC and I was checking the Visa statement and noticed a large charge from Canadian Tire. I texted Brent to ask about the charge, and his response was simply “POOOOOOL!”. We still have that pool to this day and it remains one of the funniest messages I have ever gotten from him. A year and a half ago, I had been bugging Brent about us needing another golden retriever because I kept seeing cute ones online. Two weeks before Penny’s first birthday, after supper he just said, we have to be at this address at 7pm to pick up our new puppy. Some people thought it was crazy, to add a new puppy when we already had a 3-year-old and a soon to be 1 year old, but we wouldn’t change Brinkley for the world.

    Of course, all that said, there was still a little bit of panic in me when Brent informed me that he was on his way to pick up a calf. For starters, we had nothing set up for the calf. We had bought our electric fence material, but we still haven’t taken down our neighbour’s fences that they used when they were renting our land for their horses to graze. Thankfully, Buttercup won’t be out in the fields grazing for another 6 weeks minimum. We also didn’t have any milk replacement, bottles or a pen set up in the barn. I mentioned all this to Brent when he called me on his drive home and he was quite calm about it all. He said he was going to rig up a pen in the barn for her. The good thing about being married to a carpenter is there is always a lot of scrap wood and pallets around which really come in handy. As for the milk replacement, he had already made a call to the livestock supply store down the street from our house and he ended up going to our friends’ house that is right across from the supply store, and they had bottles that they were not going to use. Brent mentioned he had a moment of panic when he was first leaving to pick her up, but that it had changed to excitement to be bringing home the first farm animal to our property.

    I did my best to not mention anything to the girls as I wanted it to be a surprise for them when he got back. They knew we were looking for a cow and liked to talk about what it would be like when they got one, but I really wanted to see their reaction when it was finally here. I also didn’t really feel like having them ask me for two hours when Daddy was going to be back with the cow, so I kept it a secret. If you ever ask anyone that knows me whether I can keep a secret, most of them would laugh in your face. I am known for blabbing everything, I simply can’t keep information to myself, but I was determined to make it through the two hours. The problem with keeping it a secret was trying to convince them of the need to hurry and get their boots and coats on once Brent had told me he was just down the road. Trying to get a toddler and a 5-year-old to get out of the house quickly is a feat in itself, but it was worth it to see their reaction to the surprise Daddy had for them.

    Penny getting to know Buttercup.

    When Brent first got her out of his trailer, I was shocked at how small she was. He carried her out because she only weighs around 85lbs and is about as tall as Kili. At first, she was a bit hesitant to see the barn and have Kili and Brinkley chasing her around as if she were another puppy to play with, but she eventually got used to her surroundings and soon she was running and kicking up her legs in excitement. That excitement was what lead to my first time being kicked by a cow, thankfully she is still small so it didn’t hurt, but I will be more mindful of it in the future. Cece and Penny were over the moon about their new cow. They helped me put her hay down while Brent made a pen for her by attaching some pallets together and one for a door at the end, securing it to the barn. Then they had plenty of hugs and kisses for her while she snuggled into her hay. They refused to leave her side until Brent got back with the milk replacement and the bottles and then they wanted to help feed her. With both my girls, I was lucky enough to be able to breastfeed them exclusively, which means that I have absolutely zero experience with formula, which is pretty much what this milk replacement is for the calf, although it comes in a much bigger bag. It was a very new experience having to measure out 2.6 L of water then weigh the required powder. At first Brent tried mixing it in the bottle, which proved to be rather impossible, and powder was spilling out. Then we moved onto a large metal bowl and then using a funnel to put it back into the bottle. When we brought it out to Buttercup, she drank it with gusto. The girls each had a turn holding the bottle and I got my chance as well.

    The girls were sad to have to leave her, as we went inside to have dinner. They came out with me after to bring a large container of water for her. Again, as this was a spur of the moment purchase, we didn’t have a water trough for her. After some quick googling I discovered that calves have a tendency to knock over their water if it is just in a bowl for them, so I had to ditch my plan of a large salad bowl. I quickly scoured the house looking for something that would be “trough-like” something that I never thought I would be doing. The best thing I could come up with was using one of our old Superstore grocery bins, and I have to say it was very effective. Online it said it had to be something that would be heavy enough not to be easily tipped over, and I can say that once it was filled up with water, it was certainly not easy to carry and therefore I felt confident she wouldn’t be able to tip it over. Of course, I still had to bring it from our house, all the way out to the barn. Going from the house to the barn is not normally a difficult trek, but carrying several litres of water in a bin, while holding Penny’s hand and avoiding giant puddles from the melting ice, made it considerably harder. We will definitely need to find a better permanent solution for Buttercups water needs. Once the water had been carefully placed in her paddock, the girls took the opportunity once more to give her a few more goodnight kisses and hugs, and then they reluctantly came into the house to have a bath as they had been rolling around in the hay with Buttercup.

    Girls saying goodnight to Buttercup

    Going forward, our routine will have to change to incorporate Buttercup’s feeding schedule. Based on her weight, she needs to have 2.6L of milk replacement twice a day and she will start to get food starter within the next couple days for the next 6 weeks until she can hopefully start to be weaned. By the summer, she will be out in the field and grazing on pasture which will come with all kinds of new projects like getting the fencing up, making sure she has easy access to water and building a cow shed for shelter once the winter months hit. There is bound to be so much to learn with her, and I know it will be a lot of work, but she is pretty darn cute.